Talking Dirty To A Guy: Why And How To Do It

June 9th, 2017

Leaning how to talk dirty to a guy can be beneficial on both a physical and an emotional level.

Your man will love to hear your dirty talk because that will let him know how much he turns you on, and because it will in turn turn him on a lot more. It will also increase the bond and connection you share with him.

First of all you both need to be comfortable doing this. You know yourself better than anyone else, so it’s up to you to decide how explicit you intend to be and how far you are willing to take it, but it’s also very important to know how he feels about the same thing. Communication is a very important aspect in any relationship, and being able to discuss sex with each other without embarassment is part of that.

For the first times you are doing this, I suggest to start slowly, using sensous phrases but nothing hardcore. Another great way is to describe verbally what youre going to do to him, or what you would like being done to you. Gauge his reaction: if he is getting turned on and starts talking you back, then it’s a very good sign, keep going and maybe scale it up a bit.

If he shows to appreciate your dirty talking , go on with naughtier things, ramp up your descriptions and, if you are comfortable with that, throw in some nasty words. Things will build up, and both of you may find yourself losing control and inhibition, saying things you never thought you could: if it happens, that’s great!

As things heaten up tell him how good he makes you feel: one thing that usually does wonders is alternating sweet and tender phrase with dirty ones, many guys absolutely love this! Even moans and screams are a form of dirty talk, and show him how much you are enjoying yourself. As always, communication is vital, and later on you should ask your partner his thoughts: what things did he like best? What would you like to hear? If done right, dirty talking is a great way to improve lovemaking, as well as the entire relationship.

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